Do You Dread Your Job?

Hate my job

When you woke up this morning were you excited about what awaited you at work or did you feel heaviness in your heart and dread the thought of your workplace situation?

Have you asked yourself lately if you still have passion for and get enjoyment from your job?  Do you enjoy whom you work with and what you can accomplish with them each day?  These are important questions to ask so you can be on top of any underlying problems that may be brewing.

For example one of my coworkers, who is very good at keeping her feelings to herself, was struggling with the thought of coming to work each day because of another coworker who was always disrupting her work and chattering making her work environment miserable for her.

Once the problem came to light we were able to work it out and resolve the issue. Later she told me how she just dreaded the thought of being at work each morning and was going to look for another job because she was so frustrated with the situation.  She was so happy that she voiced her frustration and the problem was resolved, because she really did like her job.

By asking ourselves daily questions about how we feel overall regarding our job we can be aware when things are not right and fix them before we get to the point of sure dread.

The following three questions are a good test to see how you are feeling about your current job situation. Take the time to really think about your answers.

  1. Am I happy about going to work today?
  2. Name three things that you will do today at work that you are looking forward to doing.
  3. Name one thing that you could do today to make your job better for you, your coworkers and those that you serve.

As you ask yourself these questions you will find that if you do really like your job you will feel an excitement as you think about what you are looking forward to doing and what can you do better.

If you have a heavy heart about your job it will be hard to make it past the first question, and intervention may be needed as in the case with my coworker.

Examination of our heart and how we feel about what we do each day at work is essential to our mental and physical health. Our heart is a good indicator, if we listen to it, about how we feel regarding our job.

I think Eleanor Roosevelt hit the nail on the head when she said, “Work is easier to carry if your heart is involved.”   You cannot give your best each day if your heart is weighing you down.

 

3 thoughts on “Do You Dread Your Job?

  1. Thank you for the post.
    Being “OK” with where you spend 40% of your time is important. Many people may not even realize that they are unhappy. Their emotional status has become “normal.” Your simple questions may help many people realize that they are unhappy. Maybe they will even be able to do something about it.

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